2+2=4, 4+4=8, 8+8=16, 16+16=32
…32+32=64, 64+64=128, 128+128=256, 256+256=512, 512+512=1024…
Sex, for men, is really all about not coming. Most of my energy during sex is allocated to this task.
The most shameful is when I try to postpone it by going slower and slower until I stop, trying to make out like I’m just being sensual or some shit, then when I’m cervix deep and stationary I still completely come. So then I’m still, have been for a while now, and have to reveal, “um…I came.” But not before trying to get another five or ten seconds out of my erection before it goes soft, so she thinks I’m that much less of a failure.
Categories: Frivolity, Living, Masochism, Relationships
Been there, done that.
Why don’t you try these books and also just be honest with your partner about what you’re experiencing?
Coping With Premature Ejaculation: How to Overcome PE, Please Your Partner & Have Great Sex by Michael E. Metz
How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation by Helen Singer Kaplan
How to Make Love All Night: And Drive a Woman Wild! (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking) by Barbara Keesling
this post was primarily intended as comedy.
this kind of thing probably happens about 1/3 of the time, and is the same with most men (especially when you’re going raw, it’s way more sensitive; also when it might have been a few days or a week since your last intercourse), even though most won’t admit it. that’s why it is my comedy fodder. comedy often functions as a catharsis, and that’s what i’m aiming for here.
there are no apparent honesty or communication problems between me and my partner and our sex is generally a mutually positive experience. what i discuss in this post happens often enough though that most men can relate. (i’ve talked with many men about this, although they only admit it because i make a point of being open about everything so people feel less self-conscious.)
but thanks anyway
Is Denise a Klingon?
ha..ha..ha..!!! Thanks on behalf of women fr your valiant efforts! It’s ok if it’s short, just make it up to her by going a second and a third round
i often get her off orally beforehand; she responds better to that anyway
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“i often get her off orally beforehand; she responds better to that anyway”
-even more valiant!
haha, it’s actually more like “sometimes” than “often,” but still, i get secret pleasure out of pleasing
Ian Kerner’s books “She Comes First” and “He Comes Next” are also excellent. Most women need oral sex in order to climax anyway.
Very helpful; we should get right on it.
ha ha